Friday, May 24, 2013

Week 2 of our adoption journey


Day Nine

To God Be the Glory, Great things he has done.  Yesterday we had to go before the SDA board in the region that “H” is in.  This board represents all of the Social Workers in the District (county).  They have reviewed our case and the only question they wanted to know is why did we look for a child in the Ukraine?  Our response was, actually we were not looking but one day while I was doing research for a paper I was writing for class for my deaf mission paper I ran across a site and listed deaf orphans all over the world but this one little boy stood out me and God laid him on my heart.  Finally I told Kathy about him and she ask me what I was waiting on that we needed to do this and it was at Christmas and so we prayed about it and took the money for our own presents to each other and made our initial deposit to get the process started.  They were evidently pleased and they all voted 100% to allow us to proceed with the adoption.

The next thing we are trying to do is to get a court date.  We are hoping it will be next week but is could be the first week in June before we go before the Judge.  But each day we get to spend about 2 to three hours with “H” and we are finding out he is a very intelligent and a fast learner.  One of the teachers there has been working with us every day to help us learn their sign language so we can help “H” transition easier to ASL (American Sign Language).  Yesterday we discovered something else about “H”, he has a great sense of humor.  He really made Kathy and me laugh and again today.  He is working hard but as a young boy will do he gets tired and wants to play with his NABI.  So as a reward after our learning time is over he gets to play with his NABI.  This is a Motorola Android PAD that has a parent side and a child side.  He likes the games especially Angry Bird. 

 Day Ten

Today we as another very productive days with “H”.  “H” is how I am referring to him because that is the name we have always known him by; however, it was an alias name used by the ministry website to protect the child.  The name he goes by fits him and his personality must better and so we have chosen to keep this name for him as his middle and called name, but for now we will refer to him as “H”.  After the court and we have him in our custody we can release his real name and a picture of all of us. 

Today I had Kathy working with him more because she will be with him more when I am at work and if she does not start learning now it will be harder on her when we get home.  So today it was Momma and “H” working together on things like telling momma that “H” is sick, hungry or thirsty.  And how momma would say that “H”’s hand were dirty or face was dirty and needed to be cleaned. And that Momma would say ok now washy your face, brush your teeth put on your PJ’s and go to bed.  Things that would be said every day around the house and he is really catching on fast, but we have also discovered he really like the NABI and that we will have to limit the time he plays on it.  But that is just part of being a parent and we are looking forward to helping this young man to be the person God wants him to me.  We can’t wait for our family and friends
Love
Rev. Ben & Sis Kathy Dailey

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